Adapting to Adult Learners
Teaching character traits to adults can be challenging, as they often come with established personalities and opinions. Adults typically seek physical skills and fitness rather than moral guidance. However, respect and open conversation can make a significant difference.
Rather than preaching, engage adults in discussions that allow them to reflect on and share their own views. For instance, during warm-ups or breaks, bring up topics like honor or integrity. Encourage students to discuss these concepts among themselves. This approach can be effective as adults often respect and learn from their peers’ insights. You might find that adults are capable of teaching one another, providing valuable perspectives that enhance the overall learning experience.
The Role of Instructors
Is it the job of martial arts instructors to teach character traits? The answer is nuanced. While adults may resist direct moral teachings, they are still influenced by the character and behavior of their instructors. Children, on the other hand, are more impressionable and will more directly model their behavior after their instructor.
Impact on Children
Children are particularly sensitive to the behaviors and attitudes of those they admire. As such, they will closely observe and imitate their instructor’s actions. For example, if a child sees their instructor engaging in behavior that contradicts the values taught in class, such as drinking alcohol, they may justify similar behavior for themselves.
Therefore, it is crucial for instructors to be aware of their own behavior both in and out of the dojo. Ensuring that your actions reflect the values you wish to instill in your students is essential. This includes maintaining a consistent standard of behavior that aligns with the principles you teach.
Leading by Example
Whether or not you explicitly set out to teach character traits, your role as a leader, teacher, and role model is unavoidable. Both children and adults will follow your lead if they respect and admire you. Being mindful of this influence helps ensure that the traits you model are positive and beneficial.
Conclusion
Teaching martial arts goes beyond physical techniques; it encompasses the responsibility of shaping character and behavior. By understanding how to approach character education for both adults and children and by consistently modeling the values you wish to impart, you can make a meaningful impact on your students' lives. Embrace your role as a role model and lead with integrity to foster a positive and respectful learning environment.